Erika Britt Head

Advice I've enjoyed...

2012-01-07T14:01:00.000-08:00

I've been reading a book the past 6 months or so called Baby Wise. I've learned so much through it that I wanted to share a few great things that have really spoke to me.

*Great marriages produce great parents.

*A healthy husband-wife relationship is essential to the emotional health of children in the home. When there is harmony in the marriage, there is an infused stability within the family. A strong marriage provides a haven of security for children as they grow in the nurturing process. Healthy, loving marriages create a sense of certainty for children.

*Insecurity is fostered by what is not taking place between couples as much as what is taking place.

*To improve the quality of the parent-child relationship, parents first must continue to evaluate the quality of their relationship with each other. Weak marriages do not build strong families nor do they infuse security into the hearts of children.

*The best years of parenting flow out of the best years of marriage. Protect it!

*Responsible parents are their children's teachers.

*Have fun along the way, but never at the expense of needed leadership.

*Life doesn't stop once you have a baby.

*Date your spouse.

*Continue those loving gestures you enjoyed before the baby came along.

*Invite friends over for food and fellowship.

*Resolve to be your child's parent, NOT a peer.

Emy. One month!

2011-09-15T20:17:00.000-07:00

Emersyn Lynne

2011-07-13T07:34:00.000-07:00

My hope is that as I grow more into His image, I can relay that security to my daughter. I want her value to come from Him, not from tallying her accomplishments next to someone else's. I want her to rejoice in who she is, not stress over who she isn't.

Excellence

2011-05-04T07:58:00.000-07:00

Strive for excellence! I've always felt this necessary, but recently I've really felt the Lord pressing the issue in my heart. To me, this starts in the small things. The things others really may never know about our lives. Then that in turn flows into all the other parts of our lives. Who are we when no one is looking?

"In everything set an example by doing what is good. In your teaching so integrity, seriousness and soundness of speech that cannot be condemned, so that those who oppose you may be ashamed because they have nothing bad to say about you." Titus 2:7

I want every part of my life to reflect Jesus. Do I have a long way to go? Yes. But consistently looking at my own life and asking Him to change the things I know I can't on my own is where I like to hang out. I don't want to get to the end of this thing and be sorry that there were things in my life that were just mediocre. I want excellence in all that I do!

The way I see it

2011-05-02T14:34:00.000-07:00

"Focusing on yourself will never reveal your purpose."

What a great reminder!

Me, today.

2011-04-08T12:07:00.000-07:00

If through the Spirit of God we have an unmeasurable power, why are our lives controlled by fear and insecurity?

This question caused me to stop, sit, and think. Which then led to the question, am I ineffective? Insecure? Scared? And the reality is, yes...I have the tendency to sometimes be all three. By nature I'm aggressive. I want to excel. Average isn't good enough. In the times I'm experiencing ineffectiveness, or insecurity it's very frustrating. And very discouraging. The more I think about it and experience it, the more I understand that He truly is strong in my weakness. I understand what it means to live by the Spirit. I've taken the words of Paul today and found comfort. Let him who boasts, boast in the Lord. So, this is me boasting, recognizing I am nothing and I owe Him everything. What a good day.

Note Taken...

2011-03-31T11:03:00.000-07:00

Sometimes as I go through my journal I'm shocked at some of my thoughts. Some make me laugh, some make me sad, some I have no clue what was going through my head that day. When I put them together, it's fun.

We are called to live in anticipation.

People change. The smell of fall is comforting.

The fast lane isn't fast enough.

We're all in the process of dying.

God has given you dreams- chase them.

Wedding veils were cool in 1986.

Lack of belief is simply lack of understanding.

The least dependant you are on someone, the better!

I don't want all the answers.

Never be intimidated.

Humans have a knack for screwing things up.

Welcome to existence.

London is beautiful.

Desperation and instability is NOT attractive, girls. Get a grip.

Hearts need a lot of time to heal.

Ministry is hard.

McDonald's fries are the best.

The most growth I do is by listening to others.

Boldness should be a goal. Life is one big decision.

In love is either the best, or worst place to be.

Fail. And get back up. Every time.

If you have to ask if it makes you look fat, chances are the answer is yes.

EVERYONE desires authenticity.

A changed life should move you to tears.

Obama is not the Antichrist. Everyone chill.

Finding the love of your life is an achievement. Treat it like one.

If you order from an infomercial, you're an idiot.

Unconditional love is easy to say, but I'm finding one of the hardest things I'll ever attempt to do.

Buy me a bag of sunflower seeds and you're my hero.

Change brings growth.

I take the ones I love for granted. I hate this about myself. Must change.

Snuggies? Really?

Life is funny. We're too serious about it sometimes.

I can't decide...

2011-03-31T10:37:00.000-07:00

I love all the fun decisions! Can we just get 5 cribs though, I can't decide!

21 weeks

2011-03-30T09:17:00.000-07:00

18 Weeks.

2011-03-09T12:25:00.001-08:00

A story of forgiveness.

2011-03-04T10:35:00.000-08:00

This is a story from the TV show "I Survived". I watch the show weekly, but haven't heard a story quite like this one. The only explanation for this outcome is the work of the Lord in Terry's life. Incredible!

Second Baptist. Why we do what we do.

2011-03-03T14:10:00.000-08:00

New Member Stories 2011 from Second Films on Vimeo.

Incredible stories from real people. What an awesome reminder of what we're called to! God is so good. Changed lives is what it's all about.

16 weeks

2011-02-24T10:43:00.000-08:00

Welcome to our world!

2011-02-24T09:54:00.000-08:00

A few reasons why I love living at City Centre...

Wait, I'm what?

2011-02-09T07:00:00.000-08:00

Welp, ready or not! Michael and I are very excited to say we're going to be parents in August! Perhaps a bit sooner than planned, but we serve a funny God. Pregnancy so far has been...interesting. But now that I've started on my second trimester, it has been awesome! We'll find out in 4 weeks what we're having. I'm pulling for a girl. I can hardly resist all the cute clothes! They're taunting me!

So exciting!

Yes, I did.

2010-11-29T13:10:00.000-08:00

DIY!

2010-11-19T11:06:00.000-08:00

Three letters that I had no clue the meaning until recently. Do It Yourself! I LOOVE doing crafts! So excited to see what's to come...

Sex trafficking, LET'S TALK ABOUT IT

2010-11-09T11:24:00.000-08:00

The Candy Shop Trailer from Brandon McCormick on Vimeo.

There are very few things that enrage me like the thought ofexploiting people for sex. It does something inside of me that's hard to bring to words. We don't talk about it enough and it's happening right in front of us. Find out for yourself. Visit Streetgrace.com. Educate yourself on the issue at large.

my ♥ today

2010-11-08T09:11:00.000-08:00

Will they have to lie at your funeral? Will they have to do their best to make you sound like you were a life well lived? Will the people in your audience stare at the big elephant in the room as they describe a person that they all know you weren't? Those questions plague me.

I don't want you to hear that I was a nice person, because that probably isn't what they would say anyway. I don't want you to hear that I was a free spirit and a delight to be around, because that probably isn't true either. What I DO want them to say is that I lived to honor God. No matter what that looked like. No matter where it took me. No matter the reputation it gave me, or the many opinions that swirled. I lived with a purpose and a passion. And His name is Jesus! I lived for the reason I was created. And hopefully in the midst of that I made an impact for Him on many lives that will last through eternity.

What will they say at your funeral? I hope that question keeps you up at night.

Yes, it is...

2010-11-04T09:56:00.000-07:00

my ♥ today

2010-11-03T11:15:00.000-07:00

It's a constant struggle for me to love. That's a fact. The truth is, I run low on the compassion. I hate people pleasing, and I'm awful at acting a way I don't feel. It's a flaw. But I'm convinced there's a healthy level of my intolerance and I'm determined to find it. God has prompted me to stand and be bold, even if that sometimes means alone. I don't have it all together. But I'm comfortable being me and I want nothing more than to impact young girls with that confidence. I'm convinced that Godly confidence and boldness can change the course of their lives. There is nothing honorable in going with the flow of a content life. It's boring. And we were made for so much more.

Love is a constant lesson that God presses in my life- I have to love, and I have to do it from the center of my heart. And if you know me at all, I absolutely cannot do that in my own strength. By nature, I'm a sarcastic critic. But praise the Lord that by grace, I can love. We can love.

We took the leap!

2010-11-03T10:41:00.000-07:00

Our wedding day was incredible. It was exactly what we hoped!

It honored God like crazy, and THAT was our biggest prayer!

Definitely more coming your way soon!

6 more weeks....

2010-08-30T13:37:00.000-07:00

I can't wait!

Change your ♥

2010-04-23T12:36:00.000-07:00

Luke 10:27

It's us!

2010-04-13T12:23:00.000-07:00

If you half heartedly obey the Lord your God and occasionally follow some of his commands, the Lord your God will set you high above all the nations on earth.

Sometimes I feel like this is what we read. We pick and choose what we like about God's Word, but still expect God to follow through on his promises. There's a word for this. It's called double-minded. Lukewarm. Worldly.

I wonder if we even realize how much we cheat ourselves out of by being half hearted believers. It's compromise after compromise. Lie after lie. It isn't the world I'm talking about, it's us! It's the church. It's believers who think a litle bit of the world is "ok".

Long to be real. Long to be authentic. Long to be better than ok! Long to be used by God. Rock the boat!

"If the world hates you, keep in mind that they hated me first." -Jesus

"If you FULLY obey the Lord your God and carefully follow ALL his commands, the Lord your God will set you high above all the nations on earth." Deu 28:1

my ♥ today

2010-04-08T12:32:00.000-07:00

We are all physically somewhere right now. Instead of praying "God, what do you want me to do next?" Pray "God, what do you want me to do while I'm here?" Begin to understand God's purpose for your life by discovering what He wants you to do now!

BE EFFECTIVE!

"They camped at God's command and they marched at God's command. They live obediantly by God's orders."

Numbers 9:23

Yes, you...

2010-03-25T07:37:00.000-07:00

It's only fun if we're all a little cheezy sometimes.....I love life! :)

I'm talking to me.

2010-03-11T06:32:00.000-08:00

Speech that is motivated by Satan is full of bitter envy, selfish ambition, earthly concerns and desires, unspiritual thoughts and ideas, disorder, evil.....

But speech that is motivated by God and wisdom is merciful, loving, peaceful, considerate, submissive, sincere, impartial, righteous.....

What language do you speak?

"But the wisdom that comes from heaven is first of all pure; then peace-loving, considerate, submissive, full of mercy and good fruit, impartial and sincere. Peacemakers who sow in peace raise a harvest of righteousness." James 3:17

Best prayer I've heard in a while

2010-03-10T09:41:00.000-08:00

The 4 year old gets it...

Do we live abundantly?

2010-02-17T12:37:00.001-08:00

Signs of Abundant Living!

Led by the Holy Spirit

Casting all anxiety on Him

Able to give thanks in all circumstances

Able to hear the voice of God

Recognizes and uses spirtual gifts for edification of the body

Displays Fruit of the Spirit

Overwhelming joy and peace

Expects to see miracles of God

Anticipates to see God's miracles in marriages, ministry, etc

Content with what they already have

John 10:10

There's more than happiness...

2010-02-17T10:25:00.000-08:00

I'm not stranger to the average family these days. You know, the screwed up kind. Don't get me wrong, I absolutely love my family...but I remember a time when it didn't seem to matter if I loved them or not. I was lost in what seemed to be a life always and completely unexpected.

I've got every kind of sibling I think there is to have. Full, half, step....quarter? It's been an interesting journey. And while I can say now I wouldn't change any of it for the world, I can also say I've learned exactly what I don't want to see my own family have to go through. Pondering the past, I can't help but think of marriage. I've seen families fall apart before my eyes. So what is it? What's it like? What's the key to it's success? Obviously, I'm not married so I don't have any sort of personal experience to go by, but what I do feel like I have is the Creator of that marriage. The more I talk with Him about it, the longer this question lurks in my mind. What if we worried less about our happiness, and more about our holiness? To me, marriage is an opportunity to practice complete and utter selflessness. That's hard. Really hard. He didn't come to show us happiness, He came to show us holiness. What better way than to serve your spouse, the person you love, in order to glorify and honor Him. In order to allow Him to make you Holy through the act of selflessness.

I know we're not all called to be married, but if you are remember that marriage is more about holiness than it is about happiness. Some will disagree...and that's perfectly ok with me. You can take that up with Him! :)

We are the World...

2010-02-15T09:57:00.001-08:00

Happy Birthday Buddy!

2010-02-10T09:30:00.000-08:00

Kev, I love you. Even though you get on my nerves sometimes.

So glad we could celebrate with you!

Yoooou...

2010-01-25T13:04:00.000-08:00

New Bible Study!

2010-01-20T09:54:00.000-08:00

I'm so excited! We're starting a Girls Bible Study every Sunday night from 6:30pm-8pm. We'll be taking a fresh look at what it really looks like to grow and understand God's Word. So many times I've sat across the table from girls who all have the same desire to know God, but aren't sure how to know Him. My goal in this study is for all of us to walk away with a better understanding of how to read and understand the things that God is saying to us through His Word. My challenge to the girls, as always, is to strive to fully embrace the person God has created them to be. To be real. And to boldly pursue their Savior. Here we go...

Images of the decade...

2010-01-15T08:43:00.000-08:00

I love this!

chances♥

2010-01-04T10:00:00.000-08:00

Who are you...

2009-12-21T18:43:00.001-08:00

Yesterday I sat at lunch with a few students who I would consider myself close with. The girls talked and talked about both of their lives, the good and the bad. Both had similar stories of the everyday high school life. They confessed that instead of feeling respected for making the right decisions and not going with the flow they have become the outsiders. The ones people avoid. They've become the social outsiders. They talked about the large groups everyone runs in, and their need to be accompanied in their bad decisions. Then they both confessed so many Friday nights when they've sat at home with their family while so many others were out "having a good time". The entire conversation was great, and I told the girls how very proud I am of them both for being strong in what they believe, and not being swayed by the majority. I love hearing those kinds of stories! But the part of the conversation that intrigued me the most was how the girls recognized that the majority of the students making bad decisions for themselves were all in some sort of group. The inability to be alone. Needing someone else to justify the decisions you're making for yourself. Sound familiar?

The more I've thought about it, the more I understand and see that insecurity is plaguing us today, heavily. Are you afraid to be alone? Does the silence in your life scream truth? Do you fear that? Great questions you should seriously explore in your own life...in my own life.

If there was any advice I would start off giving someone, it would be to be comfortable being you. Just you. No additives, no substitutions. Just the person that God created you to be. And be comfortable being alone! Refuse to allow another person or thing fill the parts of you that only God can fill. Could you make a hard decision without an army of "friends" behind you? Can you stand up for what you know is right, even when people don't agree? Don't get me wrong, I love company, but I truly believe the presence of others in our live can easily overshadow what God is trying to do. Sometimes it's just necessary to be alone. Having our own relationship with God means individuality at it's best. He wants to take us above and beyond what we can imagine, and He longs to fill that insecurity that might be plaguing us. It's our job to allow Him to do that!

The Silent Destroyer

2009-12-17T14:15:00.000-08:00

Over the past 6 months or so I've really gotten into VH1 television. Specifically Sex Rehab with Dr. Drew. Usually when this comes up in conversation, there's a quick laugh and that "really?" look thrown my way. Yes, REALLY. Although it can be wildly entertaining to watch some of these people live day to day, my heart is completely broken for them. I carry an extreme hate for pornography or any sort of sexual abuse. I've been able to see first hand how these things can destroy a person from the inside out. When I was 5 until about age 9 I was sexually molested by a family member, and although it doesn't effect my day to day life now there was a time it effected me every single day in a huge way. It broke me. It ruined my view on what God intended for me to understand about sex. How many people have experienced this same hurt? More than you can possibly imagine.
I hate hearing people say that pornography isn't wrong, that it doesn't effect them. It angers me. Especially when I watch members of my own family struggle with reclaiming their life due to porn. It's poison. And the perfect opportunity for Satan to destroy you slowly, without you even realizing....before it's too late.
On a more personal note, just speaking as a girl, I'm incredibly offended by pornography. Incredibly pissed. Incredibly degraded. The day I start feeling like I'm nothing more than a piece of meat, I'll be sure to let you know.
Brian Mills posted a blog with a ton of facts about porn and its effects. In fact, I'll blame him for getting me all fired up about this all over again. Check it out.

Only missing one thing......

2009-12-17T09:34:00.000-08:00

ME!!!!!

I love it!

eet...

2009-12-15T13:14:00.000-08:00

Merry Christmas...

2009-12-10T14:41:00.000-08:00

From the North Youth Staff!

Oh, I just love my team....

Learning...

2009-12-07T12:21:00.000-08:00

Enjoy it.

Little Parker!

2009-11-24T11:38:00.001-08:00

You can't help but smile when you see this! So cute!

He's one already! Happy Birthday Little Man

No matter...

2009-11-23T14:53:00.000-08:00

No matter where I am.

No matter who I'm with.

No matter my reputation.

No matter what you think.

No matter my circumstance.

No matter my frustration.

No matter my weakness.

No matter my down fall.

No matter my status.

There You are.

"The righteous will live by faith."

-Paul

QT, today.

2009-11-20T07:38:00.001-08:00

If through the Spirit of God we have an unmeasurable power, why are our lives controlled by fear and insecurity?

The more I think about it and experience it, the more I understand that He truly is strong in my weakness. I understand what it means to live by the Spirit. I've taken the words of Paul today and found comfort. Let him who boasts, boast in the Lord. So, this is me boasting, recognizing I am nothing and I owe Him everything.

What a good day.

I have no words...

2009-11-18T13:24:00.000-08:00

♥cute

2009-11-18T13:08:00.000-08:00

Easy Entertainment!

2009-11-16T13:36:00.000-08:00

Best $3 I've spent in a long time!

I love that girl....and her cheap entertainment.

(and btw Kev, get all your crap out of my living room! k thanks)

Aw.

2009-11-13T09:23:00.000-08:00

Hear Me.

2009-11-10T13:47:00.000-08:00

Change me.

Forgive me.

Grow me.

Mold me.

Take me.

Form me.

Love me.

Help me.

Challenge me.

Ground me.

Humble me.

Quiet me.

Build me.

Encourage me.

Fill me.

Use me.

Sustain me.

ALL for You.

Her Morning Elegance

2009-10-26T14:28:00.000-07:00

Dinner with the girls!

2009-10-26T09:06:00.000-07:00

They are fun! Thank you Lyndsay and Michelle for all your help!

leave me

2009-10-23T13:20:00.000-07:00

Leave Me from Daros Films on Vimeo.

Michelle Gray

2009-10-22T10:32:00.001-07:00

Soo...I have no idea how I've worked here for a year and a half and wasn't aware that Michelle was such an artist! I'm so impressed. I love her work.
Check it out here!

Focus

2009-10-22T10:18:00.001-07:00

But you, keep your head in all situations, endure hardship, do the work of an evangelist, discharge all the duties of your ministry.
2 Tim 4:5

"If His grace is an ocean, we are all sinking."

-David Crowder

Note Taken...

2009-10-21T10:43:00.000-07:00

We are called to live in anticipation.

People change.

The smell of fall is comforting.

The fast lane isn't fast enough.

We're all in the process of dying.

God has given you dreams- chase them.

Wedding veils were cool in 1986.

Lack of belief is simply lack of understanding.

The least dependant you are on someone, the better!

I don't want all the answers.

Never be intimidated.

Humans have a knack for screwing things up. Welcome to existence.

London is beautiful.

Desperation and instability is NOT attractive, girls. Get a grip.

Hearts need a lot of time to heal.

Ministry is hard.

McDonald's fries are the best.

The most growth I do is by listening to others.

Boldness should be a goal.

Life is one big decision.

In love is either the best, or worst place to be.

Fail. And get back up. Every time.

If you have to ask if it makes you look fat, chances are the answer is yes.

EVERYONE desires authenticity.

A changed life should move you to tears.

Obama is not the Antichrist. Everyone chill.

Finding the love of your life is an achievement. Treat it like one.

If you order from an infomercial, you're an idiot.

Unconditional love is easy to say, but I'm finding one of the hardest things I'll ever attempt to do.

Buy me a bag of sunflower seeds and you're my hero.

Change brings growth.

I take the ones I love for granted. I hate this about myself. Must change.

Snuggies? Really?

Life is funny. We're too serious about it sometimes.

♥

2009-10-19T14:51:00.001-07:00

The Britt's!

2009-10-18T16:06:00.000-07:00

A day in the life. If you can't find them, check the baseball field. I love my family so much! Alec had a baseball game this afternoon, and it was BEAUTIFUL outside! Don't forget to take part in what matters most....the little things!

It's a new day.

2009-10-15T08:56:00.000-07:00

my ♥ today

I consider that our present sufferings are not worth comparing with the glory that will be revealed in us.

Rom 8:18

But if we hope for what we do not yet have, we wait patiently for it.

Rom 8:25

My God is good.

And faithful.

And all I need.

Fall Riot 2009

2009-10-09T17:07:00.001-07:00

God showed up yo. Amazing.

Fav

2009-10-08T13:07:00.000-07:00

I might listen to this song 10 times a day. Love it!

Happy Birthday Tara Layia!

2009-10-02T14:22:00.000-07:00

One for good ol' days sake.

I love you!

Wish you were closer everyday!

Who sings that song?

2009-10-02T08:09:00.000-07:00

Taylor Swift.
Let's let her sing it....

Fall Riot is CONTAGIOUS!

2009-10-01T08:19:00.000-07:00

To Save a Life

2009-09-30T10:07:00.000-07:00

To Save A Life is an indie movie about the real life challenges of teens and their choices, written by seasoned youth worker Jim Britts and inspired by a passion to reach teenagers with life-affirming entertainment.

CHECK IT OUT.

Great read from Driscoll

2009-09-30T07:24:00.001-07:00

Leadership is Lonely

Fail. Big time.

2009-09-29T16:22:00.000-07:00

Today I went to lunch with an old girlfriend that I haven't seen in probably 3 months. She was one of my running buddies back in my pre-Jesus days. It's been several years now. Occasionally we see one another, but as you can imagine the different lifestyles has taken it's toll on the relationship. A good toll in my opinion. We talk of old times occasionally, but always with the understanding and respect that they are indeed only old times. Although she completely understands my heart and the things I believe, I was a total failure today. Not once did I encourage her, not once did I speak in a way that would've made me any different from the next person. I left completely convicted and almost in tears. Especially after she insisted on paying for the meal. Someone without Jesus just offered me more than I offered her. Wow.

This is just me being real. Today, I failed God.

Not a cool feeling.

Girls' Ministry

2009-09-28T14:39:00.000-07:00

Over the past few months God has really opened my heart and eyes up to understand the significance one life can play in another. Especially girls. I spend a lot of my time hanging out with high school girls and getting to experience what life looks like from their end. It's intense. Without even realizing it they are screaming to be led. There is an opportunity in front of each of us to be able to pour into another life. This isn't about us! It's about others. This week I've challenged my girls to go out of their way to show love for a person they wouldn't normally, and to understand the part they are playing is MUCH bigger than the status they hold or they school they attend. In turn, this challenged me as well. Ask yourself everyday how you've helped another. It wasn't a suggestion from Jesus. It was a command. The word "GO" echoes in my mind. We can learn all we want to learn and read all we want to read, but the action is what puts our faith to work. ACT.

Every week for the next few weeks a group of girls and myself will be taking trips to deliver this card to other women in ministry. We are so excited to see how God will use their experiences, heart breaks, advice and love to lead us. We've already had some excellent feedback. We come on our knees and expecting God to do great things.

To make your season beautiful, become a girl who lives for the glory of God. Become a girl who encourages others to rise up and be bold.

We will shine like stars in the universe,

Holding out Your truth in the darkest place.

We'll be living for Your glory!

-MATT REDMAN

Krochet Kids!

2009-09-28T14:17:00.000-07:00

The Krochet Kids organization....neat deal!

Our Values
People: We desire holistic freedom for our people to grow and enrich their lives physically, emotionally, and spiritually.
Our Product: We believe in quality, handmade products that not only bring comfort and style, but serve as a vehicle for social change.
Love: We believe actions rooted in love bring lasting and powerful change. Our model for love is that of the ultimate servant: Jesus.

My fav! Cute!

Are you obsessed?

2009-09-26T15:24:00.000-07:00

Am I obsessed?

People who are obsessed with Jesus give freely and openly, without censure. Obsessed people love those who hate them and who can never love them back.

People who are obsessed with Jesus aren't consumed with their personal safety and comfort above all else. Obsessed people care more about God's kingdom coming to this earth than their own lives being shielded from pain or distress.

Obsessed people are more concerned with obeying God than doing what is expected or fulfilling the status quo. A person who is obsessed with Jesus will do things that don't always make sense in terms of success or wealth on this earth.

A person who is obsessed with Jesus knows that the sin of pride is always a battle. Obsessed people know that you can never be "humble enough", and so they seek to make themselves less known and Christ more known.

People who are obsessed with Jesus do not consider service a burden. Obsessed people take joy in loving God by loving His people.

People who are obsessed with God are known as givers, not takers. Obsessed people genuinely think that others matter as much as they do, and they are particularly aware of those who are poor around the world.

A person who is obsessed thinks about heaven frequently. Obsessed people orient their lives around eternity; they are not fixed only on what is here in front of them.

People who are obsessed are raw with God; they do not attempt to mask the ugliness of their sins or their failures. Obsessed people don't put it on for God; He is their safe place, where they can be at peace.

A person who is obsessed with Jesus is more concerned with his or her character than comfort. Obsessed people know that true joy doesn't depend on circumstances or environment; is is a gift that must be chosen and cultivated, a gift that ultimately comes from God.

A person who is obsessed is characterized by committed, settled, passionate love for God, above and before every other thing and every other being.

Francis Chan's book Crazy Love has changed my life. Seriously. Conviction city. Makes me look at my comforts, safety and luxuries in a COMPLETELY different light. It made me understand that this relationship with the God I serve is just getting started.....

Umm...enjoy your snack...

2009-09-25T09:15:00.001-07:00

AND YOUR CAVITY!

New Release

2009-09-24T15:01:00.000-07:00

Francis Chan released "Forgotten God" this month. Chan’s previous book Crazy Love has sold over a quarter million copies and continues to fly off bookstore shelves. Forgotten God shares a message that is nearly as urgent and undoubtedly even more important. It is a fitting sequel that bears many resemblances to the book it follows. Check it out!

JETT!!!!!!

2009-09-24T07:37:00.000-07:00

JETT ELIJAH THURMAN is being born today!! We are soooo excited to finally meet him! Keep Meredith and Patrick in your prayers!

Allie

2009-09-23T07:02:00.000-07:00

It's a sad day. I'm giving my dog Allie away. She's awesome! Just needs a little friend who can give her the attention she needs.

Goodbye Allie!

Are you lukewarm?

2009-09-22T11:22:00.000-07:00

Lukewarm people attend church fairly regularly. It's what's expected. What they believe "good Christians" do, so they go.

Lukewarm people give money to charity and to the church.....as long as it doesn't impinge on their standard of living.

Lukewarm people tend to choose what is popular over what is right when they are in conflict.

Lukewarm people don't really want to be saved from their sin; they only want to be saved from the penalty of their sin.

Lukewarm people are moved by stories about people who do radical things for Christ, yet they do not act. Lukewarm people call "radical" what Jesus expected of all His followers.

Lukewarm people rarely share their faith with their neighbors, coworkers, or friends.

Lukewarm people gauge their morality or "goodness" by comparing themselves to the secular world.

Lukewarm people say they love Jesus, and He is, indeed a part of their lives. But only a part.

Lukewarm people love God, but they do not love Him with all their heart, soul, and strength.

Lukewarm people love others but do not seek to love others as much as they love themselves.

Lukewarm people will serve God and others, but there are limits to how far they will go or how much time, money, and energy they are willing to give.

Lukewarm people thing about life on earth much more often than eternity in heaven.

Lukewarm people are thankful for their luxuries and comforts, and rarely consider trying to give as much as possible to the poor.

Lukewarm people do whatever is necessary to keep themselves from feeling guilty.

Lukewarm people are continually concerned with playing it safe; they are slaves to the god of control.

Lukewarm people feel secure because they attend church, made a profession of faith at age twelve, were baptized, come from a Christian family, vote Republican, or live in America.

Lukewarm people do not live by faith; their lives are structured so they don't have to.

Lukewarm people probably drink and swear less than average, but besides that, they really aren't very different from your typical believer.

Ouch. Was the first word that came to mind after stumbling upon this. God, you had to go there?? The answer is YES. As uncomfortable as it may be sometimes, I love being called out by God. I love to see my flaws brought to the surface. I'm as guilty as the next person of many of the statements above. My prayer, as I hope is yours too, is to move past what can be a lukewarm faith and experience God for WHO HE REALLY IS, not for what we perceive Him to be. Notice Jesus gave us the command to go and make disciples, teaching them to obey. What he didn't add to the end of that verse was- "but hey if that's too much to ask, just tell them to become Christians--you know, the people who get to go to heaven without having to commit to anything." Sometimes I'm convinced we've mastered the art of fooling ourselves. Strive to get in tune with the GOD WHO IS.

Because of Your love

2009-09-21T08:12:00.000-07:00

my heart, today

Show me your ways, O Lord, teach me your paths; guide me in your truth and teach me, for you are God my Savior, and my hope is in you all day long. Ps 25:4

Because of your love, I live.

Babies Babies EVERYWHERE!

2009-09-18T13:02:00.000-07:00

Little Jett!

Olivia and Parker!

Emma Brooke

He's getting so big!

The Army Crawl!
So Cute!

My ♥ today

2009-09-17T12:43:00.000-07:00

I am still confident of this: I will see the goodness of the Lord in the land of the living. Wait for the Lord; be strong and take heart and wait for the Lord. Ps 27:13

All of my life, in every season, You are still God

I have a reason to sing

I have a reason to worship

Create a Riot!

2009-09-17T07:55:00.001-07:00

It's that time of year! So far planning has been great! We're looking forward to what God is gonna do! BE PRAYING.

Fun!

2009-09-16T14:32:00.001-07:00

I'm not a huge Oprah fan, but I LOVE the Black Eyed Peas! This is neat.

Happy Birthday, Alec!

2009-09-14T13:18:00.000-07:00

Today Alec is turning 12! Oh my goodness. He's getting so big!

Love you Buddy!

Journal

2009-09-14T12:50:00.000-07:00

I keep a journal. Pretty often I like to go back and read the different things I've written. It's an awesome way to be able to see God work in your life. You'll write things that you would've never remembered. (And some things you don't want to remember I'm learning) Doesn't life change so much? I can't help but appreciate it. I went back exactly two months to the day today and found this:

"Jesus doesn't have a problem with us dying young, but when we grow old and have never lived."

A quote from Loper when she spoke at OVERDRIVE one Wednesday night. Evedentally it grabbed my attention and I scrambled for my journal. All throughout my journal I find things like this. Different details about people, and things I remember about them. Different stories. Different scriptures that God gives to me. Different lesson's learned. I love it! You should try it!

Crazy Love

2009-09-14T09:53:00.000-07:00

My new read. Heard it's a great book. I've heard excellent things about Francis Chan.

I pulled this quote from Joyce Meyer this morning.
"The most progress that we make is when we choose to do what is right when everything feels wrong. You have that little bit of discomfort, but that discomfort that you feel in your flesh is what’s pushing you toward the Promise Land. It’s your flesh dying so that your flesh can no longer control and manipulate you. Real freedom is not getting your way about everything, real freedom is being able not to have your way and stay just as happy as you would if you got your way."

Somehow she has a way to put into words EXACTLY what I wish I could say. I guess that's what makes her the excellent speaker, and me the listener:) And that's ok with me!

Crazy Love.

Me, Today

2009-09-13T12:46:00.000-07:00

Dr. Young delivered an excellent message this morning. (Much more on my level than Wallace's was last night! He's too smart for me I think) It was a message that I didn't even realize my heart needed to hear. How are you loving the people in your life? The way you know how to love them, or the way He knows how to love them? Do you show up because it's your job, or because it's your passion? Do you make that phone call because the boss tells you to, or because YOU want to? What does your heart really look like when you do what you do? Such an excellent challenge for me. 1 Cor 13: 1-3 hit me hard. Paul makes himself very clear...without love, the right kind of love, we have absolutely nothing.

I cannot say this prayer enough!

Create in me a pure heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me. Restore to me the joy of your salvation and grant me a willing spirit to sustain me. Ps. 51: 10 & 12

KPARK!

2009-09-11T12:23:00.001-07:00

Kingwood Park Volleyball and Football games tonight. Fun! Go Panthers!

Passion

2009-09-10T16:37:00.000-07:00

Something that God has continuously put on my heart lately is the word passion. While there are several different meanings of the word, these best describe my opinion:
PASSION:
1. any powerful or compelling emotion or feeling, as love or hate.
2. strong amorous feeling or desire; love; ardor.

When I think about passion two things come to mind. The first being basketball. Odd, I know. I can remember when there was a time in my life that everything I was, everything I longed to be revolved around basketball. I was devoted in every aspect. I spend countless hours practicing, memorizing plays, thinking of new plays, anticipating my next game. It consumed me. It was the passion in my life.
Fast forward a few years. While my love for the game is still somewhere in my soul, I've come to understand that basketball just wasn't in the cards for me. I'm a 5 foot nothin white girl, and let's face it....I couldn't even touch the net. Today a different word comes to mind when I hear the word passion. It's the word Christ. I don't have the time to being to describe how futile my passion for basketball compares to my new found passion. There will be a time in my life when I look back over all these years and I'll be able to say- He was everything I wanted to be, and everything I longed for- except this time, it will be in the cards for me. His love will remain. Today, He is the passion in my life.

Do whatever it is that you do, find whatever it is you're looking for, be whoever it is you're called to be....but don't do it without passion in your life! Life is too short.

Woman's Bible Study

2009-09-09T11:58:00.001-07:00

Last week we started a woman's bible study on the North campus. Everyone woman on staff was invited to participate. We meet on Thursday's from 11:30 to 1:00. The first week was really good....we all got a chance to share a little bit about ourselves and our story. Typically a room full of ladies is way too much estrogen in one place for me, but I can already tell God has some great things in store! We're looking at the life of David. I LOVE learning new things about the Bible, the details of it, the personal life stories. The study is called Anointed. Transformed. Redeemed. Good things are to come my friend, good things are to come.

Celebrating Sarah

2009-09-06T17:01:00.000-07:00

Sarah and I have been friends for almost 11 years now. In October she'll be married to her boyfriend of 10 years....I know, insane. They started dating when we were in the 8th grade. She has asked me to be her Maid of Honor in her wedding. This past weekend we got to celebrate the ending of her singleness :) I love you Sarah!

Paul's Words

2009-09-06T16:14:00.000-07:00

Standing up, Paul motioned with his hands and said: "Men of Israel and you Gentiles who worship God, listen to me! The God of the people of Israel chose our fathers, he made the people prosper during their stay in Egypt, with mighty power he led them out of that country, he endured their conduct for about 40 years in the desert, he overthrew seven nations in Canaan and gave their land to his people as their inheritance."
"After this, God gave them judges until the time of Samuel the prophet. Then the people asked for a king, and he have them Saul son of Kish, of the tribe of Benjamin who ruled forty years. After removing Saul, he made David their king. He testified concerning him: 'I have found David Son of Jesse a man after my own heart; he will do everything I want him to do.'
"From this man's descendants God has brought to Israel the Savior Jesus, as he promised. Before the coming of Jesus, John preached repentance and baptism to all the people of Israel."
"Brother's, children of Abraham, and you God-fearing Gentiles, it is to us that the message of Salvation has been sent. The people of Jerusalem and their rulers did not recognize him, yet in condemning him they fulfilled the words of the prophets that are read every Sabbath. Though they found no proper ground for a death sentence, they asked Pilate to have him executed. When they had carried out all that was written about him, they took him down from the tree and laid him in a tomb. But God raised him from the dead, and for many days he was seen by those who had traveled with him from Galilee to Jerusalem. They are now witnesses to our people."
"We tell you the good news: What God promised our fathers he has fulfilled for us, their children, by raising up Jesus.
"Therefore, my brothers, I want you to know that through Jesus the forgiveness of sins is proclaimed to you. Through him everyone who believes is justified from everything you could not be justified from by the law of Moses. Take care that what the prophets have said does not happen to you:

"Look, you scoffers, wonder and perish,

for I am going to so something in your days that you would never believe,

even if someone told you."

What I hear when I read this:

The God we serve is still the SAME God. We are still the SAME people. I'm convinced that we too would stand shouting "Hosanna!" and almost in that same breath shout "Crucify him!" We do it everyday in our own subtle ways. He is still constant. Still does not NEED us for a second, but continues to prove himself faithful. We are still unworthy in every way. Paul's words scream a promise and a warning. He couldn't be more clear.

I love it.

Underground Begins

2009-09-04T09:50:00.000-07:00

Last night was our first Underground at the North Campus. Marshall Dallas did a great job! We're looking forward to the things that God will do. It's every Thursday night at 8pm. Come join us!

Student Leadership Team

2009-09-03T08:20:00.000-07:00

For the past several weeks Patrick Thurman, our high school associate, has been hard at work organizing and preparing a group of students to be apart of our leadership team. There are 11 kids on the team. Last night, at Wednesday Night Lights, the team got their first opportunity to put their skills to work. They were able to plan and organize the night. It was a total success! The students totally stepped up to the challenge. There was a different vibe in the room. They totally owned it. It was awesome to see God work through their leadership, and this is just week one! I truly believe God as orchestrated each of these students for this role. They are a group of stellar students who are prepared to serve and honor God. I'm blessed to be a part of what they're going to do! It's only the beginning!

Fantasy Football

2009-09-02T11:20:00.000-07:00

So yesterday all of our guys on staff met in Mark Terry's office to get their "picks". I carried on with my day....finishing up emails, getting ready for Wednesday Night Lights, went to lunch and returned. Still no sign of the guys. Really? I get it. Football is awesome. I really do love it. I love watching it, but over the years I've developed a rather strong hate for Fantasy Football! I dated a guy one time who had a team and it was ridiculous! Anytime we were near a computer it was a "quick sign on" that was seldom ever quick! And he was for real about this stuff too. I remember sitting in a restaurant one time and he found out that a player (obviously a very valuable player)was hurt and the yell he let out almost made me crawl under the table. C'mon man. I'm all about being passionate and giving it all ya got, but the key word here is FANTASY. Maybe I just can't appreciate it, maybe I'm just a girl when it comes to this area, but either way I'm putting some strong thought into banning Fantasy Football from my marriage! I think I'll write a vow, yes I just might!

Jgray, don't fire me.

Love is a DECISION

2009-09-01T07:10:00.000-07:00

You may not have heirs in the traditional sense. I don't. You may not have a fortune to leave behind or a legacy of great works that will outlive your fleeting days on this planet. But if you're brave enough, you can leave a "love trail" that will linger long after you've gone.

Love takes courage. It takes patience. It's easy to be bitter and hate. Start something today. We've only got one chance at this.

Facebook, git outa here!

2009-08-31T08:34:00.000-07:00

Yes, I said it. I'm out on Facebook. For the past couple of months I've been without one...and it really has been amazing! FRRRRREEDOM! I thought to begin with it might be hard, but in all honesty I can't begin to explain how much my relationship with God has grown since I've cut the ties. It's so refreshing! And to be honest, I don't care what everyone else is doing at every moment of every day! And since we're being honest, some of you people need to get a life...I mean, I'm just sayin. If I didn't have so many students to keep up with, my phone would be next! I love the feeling that any of my free time right now I'm allowing God to use. It will change your life!!

He is Yours.

2009-08-28T14:01:00.001-07:00

Alec at Next Level Camp 2009.

What I live to see. This brought tears to my eyes. I love him so much.

I Love My Team!

2009-08-25T14:06:00.000-07:00

I truly love my job. I'm so unbelievably blessed! They're so fun!

Don't say the "S" word!

2009-08-24T05:41:00.000-07:00

One of my co-leaders, Julie Chriswell, and I have decided to get together today and pray for every one of our girls by name. Yesterday during our small group we encouraged the girls to start this year out with a bang! Seeking after, surrendering, making the sacrifices necessary, and using their life to glorify God in every way this year. We come with a heart expecting God to do big things this year, and so thankful that He is letting us take part! Think back to high school....it was a tough time for a lot of us....these students NEED our prayers! It a time in life that they are tirelessly searching for themselves, what better time to point them straight to God. Join us in prayer!

Life!

2009-08-23T17:06:00.001-07:00

The last week has been pretty eventful for me.

I spent the weekend with my mom, her mother-in-law, and her sister-in-law in Dallas at the Gaylord Texas Hotel. That place is ridiculous. It was amazing! It's so big. If you ever have the chance....check it out! We did a bit of shopping... ;)

Last Saturday my papa died, so I spent several days back home, in Abilene, remembering and spending time with family. It was a sad day, but a great celebration of a long life lived!

Saturday I got to help with Meredith and Patrick's baby shower for little Jett! It was a good time. Can't wait for my little one....well...yes I can, but you know what I mean! I'm excited!

Then last night I got to attend an old friends wedding at our Woodway campus. It was beautiful! I got to spend a lot of time with a lot of old friends! I went with my best guy friend for years now...Joed! :)

Lesson Learned...

2009-08-21T09:04:00.000-07:00

Suffering is God's tool to expose our false belief, and the mess is intended to drive us back to the only sure hope we can have.

God will often walk us through paths that deliberately confront our attachments and prejudices and fears and aversions standing like roadblocks in our relationship to him.

THIS is why I love Gary Thomas.

It's a sure reminder why today, for the first time in my life, I welcome the mess. I welcome the suffering. It's where I hang my hope. The sooner we all learn it, not the easier it will all be, but a better understanding of the God we serve is sure to follow.

I'm learning to despise a life of complacency and comfort. The enemy thrives on such people. Are you comfortable? In your opinion, is life perfect? If so, you better hit your knees. Rest assured that God's love for you will far outweigh your comfort. How will you respond?

Continue to live in him, rooted and built up in him, strengthened in the faith as you were taught, and overflowing with thankfulness.
Col 2:7